Miguel Cabrera was stressed, angry
Miguel Cabrera continued talking with reporters today about what caused some of his personal issues last season.
Essentially, he admits the stress of being a major league baseball star and having a team making a push for the playoffs, was too much for him.
As quoted by Jason Beck (but with a story by Steve Kornacki at MLive as well), Cabrera told the media:
"Everything was built up inside of me. I was angry at everybody"
*snip*
"I was young. I had a lot of pressure onto me with the Marlins and everything. I didn't know how to handle that. [People] said you're going to be a man here, you're going to be a man here, but I wasn't prepared for that."
Acknowledging that much was one step. Finding help was another big step. Cabrera said he talks to his father more, and getting back to Venezuela this offseason helped him find the help he needs. He's got a support system he feels comfortable with now. He also says things are better with his wife.
"I can get through anything. It's coming easier to me. You know how sometimes you have problems, you [keep it] inside, and you can't let it out. That's what happened to me most of the time. I was angry most of the time. Right now, it's easy to let it go."
Over the past few months I've really said everything I've got to say about the issue, so for a fresh voice, Jen reacted to the new at Old English D.
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"angry most of the time"
Shit, he did a great job hiding it on the field — I can’t wait to see what he looks/plays like happy.
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by Packey on Mar 2, 2010 10:41 PM EST reply actions 1 recs
Pressure is not always easy to deal with in a constructive manner.
I think a happier/able to manage pressure better Miguel will scare the living daylights out of the AL Central teams.
Miguel Cabrera stories from the media is the new Damonpalooza.
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I am somewhat interested, if only in hopes Miguel does better this season.
get real, media!
the link to Jen’s take shows some fallacies in how this story is viewed by some.
“Another issue is whether Cabrera is in denial. He scolded reporters for saying he was an alcoholic, and said that his problems were not alcohol-related. Huh? I think getting drunk and using abusive language on an overweight teenager qualify as alcohol-related.”
First, he didn’t “scold” reporters. He took a very passive approach to their take that he was “an alcoholic”. He corrected them, and he was right to do so. Second, he did NOT say that his problems were not “alcohol related”. He never, ever spoke generally of “his problems” either on the field or off. Where did he ever address the “problem” with fat boy? He didn’t. Seems to me that he faced the real issue head on. Miguel spoke of the one incident and said what he did was wrong. But he said he was not “an alcoholic” Do you, the media expert, have a medical opinion on this subject to question him?
My lay person’s view of the matter is, that if a person can quit drinking, they’re not an alcoholic. Sure, there are other symptoms, such as drinking alone, thinking that you “need” a drink, or that a drink can help you, but ultimately, you’re either addicted or not. If he’ has quit, he’s not addicted.
Not that there isn’t some concern for Miggy’s remarks. A guy that blows a .26 has built up a tolerance. A guy that’s six foot five that blows a .26 has sucked down some quantities of booze. Doing it the night before a game where the season is on the line? Cause for concern, to say the least. But he admitted that what he did was wrong. Still, this is the ONLY player in the league to finish in the top ten in average, homers, and RBI. He had a fine season. I’d love to see what kind of season he has when he’s not so under pressure!
FYI
Being able to quit does not make one not an alcoholic.
However, I still don’t think Cabrera was an alcoholic. Just a young man who made irresponsible choices. He may have been on the road to alcoholism though and probably recognized that it wasn’t helping and so cut it out of his life. I say good for him.
shit, I must be a raging alcoholic then.
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Is that he recognized that he was under pressure and dealt with the stress in a non-constructive manner, and has decided that didn’t work and taken steps to change. Good for him.
Anyone doesn’t have to go far to see people who deal with work, family, or school pressure by drinking – it’s a very common way of self-medicating. That he realized the source of his problem with alcohol and has taken steps to compensate for it by building up his support system is very mature (and a step that a lot of people don’t take – they figure if they just stop drinking that will be enough, instead of realizing that something needs to take the place of the drinking, like family).
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